I have got a father (finally!)

After all the saga and paranoia in my private messages, I finally spoke with my father and understood a simple truth that probably is the key: it is not that my father wants to talk only about positive things, it is that he wants to talk about things in a positive way. So we started badly, with me in a whining and begging mode and ended up with a dinner date. I even managed to tell him I was unhappy about the delay...but in a positive way. I am burning a thank you candle for the Goddess, because today I have learned something. Blessed be.